Is Love means looking at the same direction ???

Since I have too little female admirer in my life, I could take the liberty to focus on this subject. Some says opposite attract and some says wavelength connects (although I never seen the latter and I guess  same thing is applicable for every men).Well it could so happen that due to my vertically challenged nature I have missed to see the wavelength but I never heard anyone seeing the wavelength  from the vertically  blessed group either.

The day I see the beautiful girl beside my seat I thank the God because it has been a rare incident, to my journey post adulthood. My brother (younger and only) has been into relationship with his girlfriend since 9 odd years without having a single fight so far. Ouch! Which part of mine did scream? I just can’t imagine how a guy younger than me shows up such a maturity to handle a relationship without any discord? May be they are so compatible with each other or else how do you justify continuing a relationship for nine years without any fight. May be they are perfectly in sync with each other. May be I am not compatible with any girl.

I remember once one of my female friend (although I am not gender biased as It’s a absolute necessary) have asked about my point of view on my kind of girl & I pointed out some basic issues and to my surprise she just told me that I have much more issues and It will be very tough for me to find my kind of girl. Well I just said four things that she should give me enough liberty to enjoy my beers, enough freedom to hang out with my male friends, enough independence to watch anything I like (Mostly Sports Channel and NDTV) and the last but not least that she should understand me properly. Is it too demanding & if it so then I would prefer to be single than being married.

They say Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and certainly they do have different set of expectations from relationship and when they collide, I guess, it wouldn’t goes off  too well. So the conflict begins and Love got stuck between some crappy useless issues. Well for me loves means freedom and certainly if you don’t find your freedom and your corner in any relationship then get out of it. Trust me you will feel much better. I think Love shouldn’t compel you “Looking at the same direction” and certainly direction may be different but make sure your destiny would be the same.