Since I have too little female admirer in my life, I could take
the liberty to focus on this subject. Some says opposite attract and some
says wavelength connects (although I never seen the latter and I guess same thing is applicable for every men).Well
it could so happen that due to my vertically challenged nature I have missed to
see the wavelength but I never heard anyone seeing the wavelength from the vertically blessed group either.
The day I see the beautiful girl beside my seat I thank the God
because it has been a rare incident, to my journey post adulthood. My brother
(younger and only) has been into relationship with his girlfriend since 9 odd
years without having a single fight so far. Ouch! Which part of mine did
scream? I just can’t imagine how a guy younger than me shows up such a maturity
to handle a relationship without any discord? May be they are so compatible
with each other or else how do you justify continuing a relationship for nine years
without any fight. May be they are perfectly in sync with each other. May be I
am not compatible with any girl.
I remember once one of my female friend (although I am not
gender biased as It’s a absolute necessary) have asked about my point of view
on my kind of girl & I pointed out some basic issues and to my surprise she
just told me that I have much more issues and It will be very tough for me to
find my kind of girl. Well I just said four things that she should give me
enough liberty to enjoy my beers, enough freedom to hang out with my male
friends, enough independence to watch anything I like (Mostly Sports Channel and NDTV) and the last but not least that she should understand me properly.
Is it too demanding & if it so then I would prefer to be single than being
married.
They say Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and
certainly they do have different set of expectations from relationship and when
they collide, I guess, it wouldn’t goes off too well. So the conflict begins and Love
got stuck between some crappy useless issues. Well for me loves means freedom
and certainly if you don’t find your freedom and your corner in any
relationship then get out of it. Trust me you will feel much better. I think Love
shouldn’t compel you “Looking at the same direction” and certainly direction
may be different but make sure your destiny would be the same.
